Everything filed here is a normal habit. Not one of them is a mistake on any other website you use.

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They carry no name, no number and no order of preference. This site never opens them, so it has nothing to tell you about what any one of them is doing at this moment, and you will not find a light, a percentage or a date of checking anywhere on it.

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Every habit in one place

Forty habits, seven origins. The table below is the whole site in one screen. Find the ones you actually do, ignore the rest, and do not try to fix everything at once.

People arrive at a list like this expecting a ranking, because most lists about this subject are rankings. This one is not, and the absence is deliberate. Ranking habits by damage would mean claiming to know what each one costs, and that depends entirely on who you are, what else you do and what the rest of your setup looks like. A habit that is harmless for one reader is the whole story for another.

What the list does instead is name the reflex under each habit. Two habits that look unrelated often turn out to be the same reflex wearing different clothes, and once you see the reflex you tend to spot the rest of its family on your own. The reflex behind letting a browser save a password and the reflex behind sending yourself a note are close cousins: both are the reflex to hand a small piece of remembering to a machine that has never once let you down.

The list

Each row links to the page for that habit. The middle column is the name of the habit and the right hand column is the reflex under it.

Habits the browser taught you

NoThe habitThe reflex behind it
01The password manager fills itReading a filled field as proof that you are in the right place
02Letting the browser rememberAccepting a prompt that has never once caused you a problem
03Restoring the tabsTrusting that closing a window is the same as ending a session
04Keeping it on the bookmark barKeeping the things you use often within one click of the cursor
05Typing the name in the barTyping a name instead of an address because both end up working
06Making the browser comfortableAdjusting a tool until it fits the person using it
07Translating the pageReaching for a translation the moment a page is not in your language

Habits the phone taught you

NoThe habitThe reflex behind it
08Taking a screenshot to remember itKeeping a piece of the screen by pressing two buttons
09Letting the camera roll back itself upTrusting that anything worth keeping has already saved itself
10Banners over whatever is on the screenLeaving the phone free to tell you things the moment they happen
11It opens in the app, not the browserTapping a link and letting whatever opens it do the opening
12Letting the keyboard finish itLetting the keyboard decide what you probably meant to type
13The clipboard that remembersCopying something and treating the clipboard as empty afterwards
14I will just check it on my phoneReaching for the phone because the phone is already in your hand

Habits from signing in to things

NoThe habitThe reflex behind it
15Looking for a sign in with buttonScanning a new account screen for a one click way past it
16Reusing the handle you always useReaching for the handle you have typed for fifteen years
17The password shape you always useOne remembered formula with the last few characters swapped out
18Typing an address into the recovery fieldFilling the contact field because a registration form asked for one
19Keep me signed inTicking the box so the site stops asking who you are
20Assuming there is a resetNot writing it down, because forgot password has always been there

Habits from paying for things

NoThe habitThe reflex behind it
21Putting a reference on itlabelling a payment so it can be told apart from every other one
22Keeping the receiptsaving the confirmation because proof is what settles arguments
23Expecting somebody to refund ittreating a bad outcome as something a third party can be asked to undo
24The address that worked last timereusing details that worked before, because details normally stay put
25Checking it in the usual appopening the familiar app to look at a number, because looking is free

Habits from talking to people

NoThe habitThe reflex behind it
26Sending yourself a noteUsing your own inbox as the clipboard between two devices
27Asking in the groupPutting the details in so that the question can be answered
28Pasting the link to someoneSharing the thing itself rather than describing it in words
29Writing the way you always writeA voice you never have to think about, because it is simply yours
30Saying thanks with the detailsWriting the useful review instead of the empty one

Habits from the machine you work on

NoThe habitThe reflex behind it
31Using the laptop you also work onreaching for the fastest machine in the house because it is already open
32Using somebody else's networkjoining whichever network is fastest and already saved
33A device somebody else administerstrusting a device completely because it works and was handed over ready
34Printing it outprinting a long page so it can be read properly away from a screen
35Wherever it saves by defaultpressing save and letting the dialog decide which folder it goes in

Habits from the room around you

NoThe habitThe reflex behind it
36The screen facing the roomplacing a screen for light and cable length, and never for sightlines
37Saying it out loudvoicing a long string so that the letters come out in the right order
38Writing it on paperwriting something down so it survives the machine it lives on
39The packaging afterwardsstopping paying attention the moment the interesting part is over
40Walking away from itleaving a session open because home is where nothing needs locking

Reading the list a second way

The same forty pages sorted by what each habit actually leaves behind. This view is more useful once you have read a few of the pages, because it stops being a list of behaviours and starts being a list of objects: files, records, messages, copies. Almost every habit on this site produces a thing that persists, and the thing is usually more of a problem than the moment that made it.

NoThe habitWhat it leaves behind
01The password manager fills itA vault row naming this market, with a hostname stored beside it
02Letting the browser rememberRows in a profile database, plus a copy anywhere sync reaches
03Restoring the tabsA session file listing every address that was open at the time
04Keeping it on the bookmark barA labelled entry sitting in a strip that is visible in every screenshot
05Typing the name in the barA query at a search provider, and the typed text kept for later
06Making the browser comfortableA window size, an add on list and a rendering profile a page can read
07Translating the pageThe text of the page sent to a translation service under your account
08Taking a screenshot to remember itAn image file in the gallery with its words already readable
09Letting the camera roll back itself upA copy held in an account with your real name attached
10Banners over whatever is on the screenSomebody else's message sitting inside your own capture
11It opens in the app, not the browserA tap recorded inside an app you were not aiming at
12Letting the keyboard finish itLearned strings offered back to you in front of other people
13The clipboard that remembersA scrollback of everything copied, and a copy on the laptop
14I will just check it on my phoneThe careful arrangement you made elsewhere, quietly cancelled
15Looking for a sign in with buttonTime spent hunting for the version of the page that offers one
16Reusing the handle you always useA string that already exists elsewhere, now attached to this too
17The password shape you always useA password that one known example from anywhere else describes
18Typing an address into the recovery fieldA real identifier typed into a box that may simply keep it
19Keep me signed inA session that outlives the window, the evening and the reboot
20Assuming there is a resetA recovery phrase shown once on a screen that was read past
21Putting a reference on ita line of your own words stored next to an order you do not control
22Keeping the receiptan image or saved page with a descriptive name in a folder that syncs
23Expecting somebody to refund ita search for an authority to appeal to, and a stranger willing to be one
24The address that worked last timea transfer sent to a destination that may no longer belong to anything
25Checking it in the usual appa lookup logged against an account that carries your real name
26Sending yourself a noteA copy in sent mail, a copy in the inbox, both under your name
27Asking in the groupA durable, quotable question with your own particulars inside it
28Pasting the link to someoneOne paste in two accounts, plus whatever went and fetched a preview
29Writing the way you always writeOpenings, sign offs and spacing that match your other accounts
30Saying thanks with the detailsA public line that names particulars, kept after the event is over
31Using the laptop you also work onbackup snapshots, endpoint records and a browser profile that roams
32Using somebody else's networkan association record, a device identifier and a portal form
33A device somebody else administersinventory entries, policy check-ins and standing administrative rights
34Printing it outa spool file, a job entry in a printer log and a sheet of paper
35Wherever it saves by defaulta file in a folder that syncs to an account you did not choose
36The screen facing the rooma page held still in the line of sight of a door, a window or a camera
37Saying it out louda spoken address in a room, in a recording, and in somebody memory
38Writing it on papera readable object on a shared surface with no owner and no lock
39The packaging afterwardsprinted labels in a shared bin and a box standing in a shared hallway
40Walking away from ita lit screen still showing whatever was on it when you stood up

How many of these apply to you

Fewer than you fear and more than you would guess. Most readers who go through the list carefully find between four and eight that they genuinely do, and one or two that they did not know were happening at all because the software does them without asking. Those last ones are the valuable finds, and they are almost always in the browser or on the phone, because those are the two places that automate the most on your behalf.

If you want a shorter way in than forty pages, read the argument the site rests on first and then pick the single group you spend the most hours in. One group is about six pages. That is an evening, and it covers more ground than skimming all forty.

What readers ask about this group

Which habit should I start with?

The one you recognise fastest. Recognition is the scarce thing here, not information. A habit you can already picture yourself doing is one you have a chance of catching, and a habit you have to be argued into believing in is one you will forget by Thursday.

Why is there no severity column?

Because severity depends on the rest of your setup, and a column of high, medium and low would be four hundred guesses dressed up as data. The pages describe what each habit does and leave the weighing to the person who knows the rest of the situation.

Are these in any particular order within a group?

Roughly from the most automatic to the most deliberate. The ones near the top of each group tend to happen without any action from you at all, and the ones near the bottom are things you do on purpose without thinking about them.

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